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02/02/2012

Tips for Surviving February 14th As A Single

For singles, Valentine's Day is a glaring reminder that you are still solo – your colleagues receive bouquets of flowers, restaurants are reconfigured to seat only tables of two and Pepto-Bismol pink decor takes over.

It's no wonder the occasion is dreaded by singles. This year a dating site is offering singles the secret for surviving and even enjoying Valentine's Day in five quick and easy steps.

"Valentine's Day can create a gut-wrenching feeling... not unlike what you get from downing a whole box of chocolate in a pity-me frenzy," explains Kim Hughes, Singles and Dating Expert for Lavalife.com. "Singles need to keep in mind that Valentine's Day is a greeting card holiday – and shouldn't be taken too seriously. They should also take a proactive approach by following these five steps for guaranteed happiness on February 14. Who knows – they may even outshine their coupled friends."

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Step 1: Write a Gratitude List. It may sound a little corny but it works every time. Wake up in the morning and write down the people and things in your life that you are grateful for... a recent promotion? A great relationship with your sister? Quitting smoking? Whatever it is, it will undoubtedly lift your spirits.

Step 2: Send a Valentine. Take a look at your gratitude list and pick one person (or a few) that is important to you. Send them a Valentine. It can be a simple card, e-card or even a gift. You will make their day and, in doing so, feel great yourself.

Step 3: Make Plans. Put on a hot outfit, grab a couple of single friends and hit your local wine bar, karaoke dive or bowling alley. Tell funny stories of relationships past and enjoy your freedom. If you are looking for a night in, make it a movie night. Rent a bunch of romantic comedies or (better) horror flicks.

Step 4: Chat with Singles... online.

Step 5: Donate to Charity. Decide what you would have spent on Valentine's Day – £50 on a flower delivery, £10 on a box of chocolates, £100 on dinner? – and donate that amount to your charity of choice. Then anticipate the good karma coming your way.

(GK/DW)

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"For singles, Valentine's Day is a glaring reminder that you are still solo – your colleagues receive bouquets of flowers, restaurants are reconfigured to seat only tables of two and Pepto-Bismol pink